I hope you were able to attend some of the talks at last month’s Catholic Homeschool Conference. After 14+ years of homeschooling, I still find there is always something new to learn.
Browsing through some of the comments and chat feed, I was reminded that many parents really struggle with getting their kids to obey and/or do their school work:
“We started homeschooling last year The transition from public school (4 boys) has been challenging.”
“I’ve got two boys and am trying to homeschool them the last two years and it’s not going well… I can’t get them to do work.”
“Finding the right practical consequence is what I find hard to think of when they do disobey.”
“Obedience is one of the hardest things to master as a parent with children.”
Yes, I know. I’ve been there.
So, as an addendum to my talk on “How to Get Your Kids to Obey”, I’m sharing this big bad list of effective consequences. It really helps to know ahead of time what you’re going to do if your child flat out refuses to complete a math assignment, or argues about having to take out the garbage, or has gotten into the terrible habit of ignoring you every time you ask him/her to do something.Continue reading “The Big List of Effective Consequences (a.k.a. What to do When You Butt Heads with Your Kids)”